I love my wife and we have 3 wonderful kids. When … I caught my wife in an affair 7 years ago. She wanted to wait a while before getting intimate with me. I have been married for 34 years.

She then told me that we all have pasts and that is her past. But obviously I should have been told and had I known all of this, obviously I would not have had anything to do with this person. I told my wife everything in my past, even stuff that was somewhat embarrassing and unfavourable to me. Apparently it only happened once. Its like she indirectly accepted having had sex with this guy. When I met my current wife, I had my suspicions about her sexual past, but I trusted her and believed what she told me when the topic came up on occasion. No big deal. I take it seriously. She was recently divorced and told me the main reason for the divorce was that her previous husband was an intolerable, self-centered, abusive man who did not have time for her. Husband upset wife lied about her wild past. I asked my wife details of her her affair. um.. err... virgin territory. Guys, I need your help on this. Everytime I think of this guy and my wife it is really eating me up, i just cant get over it. I told my wife about my past relationships because she likes asking me about it. In the past month or so, I let loose and have begun to question; WHY? I feel like at this point if I didn't know by now, I shouldn't have been told. So we waited about 6 months. My wife revealed to me that due to her horrible emotional state I had suffered the effects. We have been married now for 4 years. Last night my wife told me she lied to me about how many guys she had sex with in her life. I met my current girlfriend a while later and things were going really well. It sounds bad but I love my wife. She had always told me that she practiced safe sex and she was proud that I was the only man ever ejaculate inside her.

She told me she was sorry for lying. It was then that she told me about her 95% of her sexual past which pissed me off. Most were when were dating in college, so it was a while ago. I did this because I felt that going into a second marriage, I … She then told me that we all have pasts and that is her past. Now she thinks I think shes slutty for something she did as a teenager. Like magic your life Will turn more happier and will be very successful

I have been married for 34 years. Not only do i not care what she did before she even met me, I found it kind of interesting and sexy (i havnt told her that part). The Things My Wife and Her Lover Did. My wife cheated in the past; My wife cheated in the past.

You are doing it to yourself. Then after a while of being serious she told me about her past and that is when I had to make a decision about her. Ive been trying to imagine what happened during the affair for the past 8 months and never had an answer to my own questions.

She told me she was sorry for lying. I take it seriously. So why stay unhappy counting about the past. My problem is that 11 years ago, I met a woman with whom I fell in love and eventually married. So the other day I decided to ask my ex wife what happened and what the details were. I feel like someone kicked me in the gut. Wife lied about her past. I feel like at this point if I didn't know by now, I shouldn't have been told.

I am being honest with her but she treats me bad.

Guys, I need your help on this.